Blogs Treating Your Partner Awesome Is HOT.

I'm always learning new things in the LS. I'll share my most recent: watching another couple treat each other well is fucken HOT!

We've met plenty of couples where I'm just not feeling it from a physical aspect...it happens, I know ya'll are surprised cause we usually love everybody. LOL. Now, I always remain open minded and willing to explore the possibility of being friends or giving people a second chance. Or third or fourth cause you just never know what was going on that one time and truth be told, the LS is an extreme environment that does not always bring out the best in people when you first meet them. 

So back to being open to someone new and a second chance: At this point, they are on "interview" with us because in these instances, I'm observing. Not in a bad way, but once youve elevated the sexual aspect, things are different.

For practical purposes, I'm going to say "he" but substitute it as you wish. I observe to see if he treats her like his queen? Does he open doors for her or just walk in and let her catch it for herself. LOL. It sounds crazy, but you'd be surprised how often it does happen. Something as simple as opening a car door can make the night for your woman. She feels special, she feels loved, her confidence is up and all of a sudden her guard is down and she wants to treat you for treating her. That's basic fundamentals of Romance, hello.

Digressing: Hooking up, starts long before the club. It starts that week when you help with the dishes. It starts that month when you dine - just the two of you, for the sake of doing so. Its starts with an "I love U" text and a call at the office just to see how the day is going. Women are SO mental in these aspects but don't forget to do these things for your men also. Guys need love too, or so Ive heard. LOL.
 
So back to "A Random Couple" - At dinner, we listen. Does he let her speak or does he interrupt her and dominate the conversation? Are they on the same page or is he dictating? Do they touch each other or even kiss or giggle at their own private references. Will he place his hand on the small of her back or hold her coat for her? PDA is not a requirement, but body language is. And I'm not saying you have to be her bitch, but Mr. S will hold my purse for me in a minute and proudly answer, "yes, I'm her bitch" as will I. LOL

Let's say he does all of these things and for interest, let's add that he may not be an under ware model, but now, I see what she sees in him. He's become cute and its attractive to see them as a couple. Now he's a gentlemen and charismatic and THAT IS HOT.  Seeing past ones exterior isnt easy. We like to label people for not doing this more often, but reality is reality.

Mr. S does all these things and some guys say, "awww, you're trying to make me look bad". Not at all, you've managed to do that all by yourself, but more then anything, he does it because he knows I like it and that's all that really matters.

If the couple does not poses any giving or loving qualities towards one another, then its sad, but the interior is just as unappealing as the exterior and that's a double whammy. Check please!

In short, its a no brainier, but when guys (and girls) treat their partner great, it makes them sexy. It shows that I can trust him in the room and I know he will respect my concerns and hers. Its shows that he's more concerned with her feelings then he is with hooking up and that's perfect. And don't think just doing this on date night is gonna work. I know that confused "who are you and why are you opening my door" look anywhere. LOL.

I don't expect much feed back on this one, but since I think more men check profiles then the ladies, I thought it was worth sharing.

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