Blogs Single vs. Married Couples

Soooooo, we have had the pleasure of meeting some REALLY cool people in the lifestyle. Mostly we hang with normal people, like usLOL and weve found ourselves gravitating to married couples, with kids, who are in love and secure of their relationship. But recently we met a couple that we had a lot (thats 2 words people!) in common with us but they are not married. So we said, Ok, thats cool, maybe they are dating, trying to get things together or maybe they just have one of those relationships like Oprah and Steady (thats what I call him) where they are just better functioning without the legal and tax obligations? I hate that rich bitch (Oprah). LOL. But NO! They were not! Not even dating, not living together, hell, they dont even see each other but on the weekendsif that!

I thought to myself, it is a PRIVILEGE to be in the lifestyle.  Its a tight network of protective people who are not quick to open their doors (or legs, LOL) to strangers, especially haters. I felt a little bit betrayed. In all honesty, the only thing I want single, might be a female, but Im starting to lean away from those too. Why?

In my opinion and opinions are like a$$ holeseverybody has oneyou have a lot more to loose then people who are single. One fight at the club and single people are out to get one another and anxious for revenge while pulling everybody down with them. Married people, fight too and hack it out, but we dont run. But the couple is really cool, very nice and were all great friends and technically, the milk has spilled, sooooooo, do we remain friends, because WE actually do know how to be friends with couplesor do we keep them on our fcuk buddies list?

I reiterate, its truly a privilege to be in the lifestyle. Single people can hook up with anyone they want, when they want. Hence the term SINGLEbut being married means you have to be fair, find connections, sometimes compromise (or at least drink a little more. LOL, thats a whole different blog) and respectful to somebody besides yourself. I guess we are ok if a couple is dating with the intentions to be married because I can understand waiting to get married until the time is right, or finances are right or till his mother-in-law gives it a rest, but friends posing as partners just doesnt reside with us.

Thoughts or are we just being snobs?

SpectacularCpl