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Oct 19, 2009 8:28 PM (15+ Years)
Oh...thanks for fixing that hot mess. LOL. ;)
Oct 17, 2009 11:55 AM (15+ Years)
Soooo a little history: When Mr. S and I got in the LS, our initial interest was because we were exploring MY bi-curiosity.  Rewind to the late 90's and a clip with bad 80's girl on girl porn and Mrs. Spec getting all wet and juicy from it. I don't care what anybody says, neon pumps and big hair is still hot! LOL. I'm not gonna deny that I enjoy the ladies. Let's face it guys (in most cases) we smell great, feel soft and silky, have curves in places that only hands should stray and there is something that is so incredibly sexy about a woman's naked body walking across a room. I don't care who you are, slangen and bangen across a room and the penis helicopter just ain't as cute. Very funny...but not cute. LOL. Sorry, I'm deflecting. I've had some of the best orgasms with women and I enjoy giving them back because it's all about the pleasure.

In perspective, I'm not a lesbian. Far from one. You don't put on pumps like mine and try to make your man lust for you because it's lesbian like behavior. No, that torture is reserved for hetrosexual fierce bitches who take pleasure in driving men wild. LOL. I guess I'm just a freak and if a numerical status is required for my sexuality, I'll quote Samantha from Sex In the City and say I'm TRI, willing to try anything at least once. Evil Smile.  

I quickly found that women in the LS required some sort of identifier. They'd ask...are you bi? Do you like girls; or the real classy ones ask, do you eat pussy? Huh? Back up…I just want to get naked and have fun. I feel it necessary to add that a couple may be cute, but if I'm not into her, I don't care how bi WE are, it ain't gonna happen.

I met a few bi-curious women and they're fun, especially when they enjoy experimentation and are down for having a good time. My kind of girl! I've run into a few denial-bis - those who are actually bi but pretend to NOT be? Maybe it's a game they like to play but the body never lies. LOL. And last, a very small hand full of those who are more “bye” to bi and yet they still enjoy a dance and some flirting and after a little wine I find their lips have accidently bumped up against mine. Maybe bi-confused? Te he he.

I'd say the majority of the LS are women who are in the first two categories of bi or bi-curious. But recently we've run into a few couples where they've e-mailed and said...Look – “We're full/soft and we enjoy lots of things BUT SHE isn't into other women”. GASP! What!  Maybe it's just me? No. Just women in general they say.  You mean to tell me you're here JUST for the sex? No way! Insert the church choir exploding into a Hallelujah and then the sound of a record coming to a screeching halt. But girl on girl is how just about everything gets started. Without it, how on earth do things get going? That's my lack of experience talking, obviously.

I'm not sure why one would think not being bi is a no-go when it's really just icing on the cake. I guess we've become so used to there being SO many freaky women that those that are not bi, really feel the need to clarify.

So, my question for this week is a multi-fold: 1) of the bi women that are in the LS, how may of you actually require/demand some girl on girl time?  And the second fold: those that are NOT bi, are you turned off or away by women or couples who are? In short…what's the status of the bi-sexual female and her position in the LS now a days?

A Good-bi,

Mrs. SpectacularCpl




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