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Funny that this has resurfacedMr. S and I took a break from saying HI to everybody. We were really under the impression that we were just too much for most, so we got in a habit of hanging in a neutral zone for a while to try something different, but NOT hiding in a booth. Like we could hide...LOL. We apologize in advance for holding up the bar and the corner of the dance floor but don't let that discourage anyone. We figure everyone has to pass to pee at some point! LOL. J/K We'll miss ya'll this weekend but you know we'll be back soon! Ya'll have fun and make sure SOMEBODY takes LOTS of pics! Ditto to a great white party DP...we had a blast! |
| Thanks for bringing this back to the top of the forum. At the White party Ms. C and I looked like we were running for office. We met some many new cool people, shaking hands giving our thank you's etc....But there was no way we met everyone. So if we didnt get a chance to say hello we will make sure to do so next time. Plus if you see Ms. C running around make sure to say hello to her. f But first and foremost thanks to all the new faces who came out at Winter White. Plus all of the old school faces that we have not seen in awhile either. It made for a very energized and sexxy night. |
| What is a Sizzletit anyway? LOL. Our bad, we're not trying to cause any problems....dang. This blog did go in a totally different direction but I supposed its good that people are communicating...our point was to RELAX and say hi back. It's just a hi...guess hi is a little more complicated then making beef jerky. But not for us...saying hi and making hard meat is EZ! Bah ha ha. |
| Just catching up on all the comments on the blog. Hi, hello, how are you, great seeing you, do you need anything and or if you do, just let us know are all comments we give when meeting and greeting at the events. So I agree totally with Spectacularcple's blog. Ms. C and I try to start off mixing as a couple but before long we get pulled in different directions and she ends up meeting alot of the party guests as I get to play with the DJ, front door staff and management. Having hosted events for the last ten years I can pretty much tell who wants to be sit back and take it all in or who wants to hit the dance floor and party like a rockstar. Everyone comes out to have a good time first and foremost and leave the real world outside. Pretty much every club environment is the same as is Dp events when it comes to the aspects of the guests. You are going out to spend some quality time with your significant other, have some drinks, add a little spark and or just have a relaxing evening and take it all in. You may or may not really care to meet new friends as you are there with that special someone. Some are headed out to meet their friends as they always do. Some have written or spoken to someone new and are meeting at the club. Then you have the guests who are out to hit the dance floor, meet some new people and have some fun. Which is what is great about a Dp event because you can do all of the above. Plus the rumor is that the guests of Dp are really sexxy and that is always a plus if for nothing else than people watching. oh sorry back on topic........ So your hosts and Dp photographers get to take it all in and try to respect everyone. As depending on your party plans you may not want your picture taken or to really meet someone other than who you came with. However everyone is always kind and courteous as that is the style of guests Dp attracts to the venues. We, the hosts, try to stay near the bar area of whatever venue we are at during the early part of the evening. Its a great way to mix n mingle and greet new party guests. As most events have 150 plus people attend so meeting everyone gets really hard as the evening progresses. So if you are new and are wanting to meet some new friends to hang out with. Just venture to the bar and or dance floor with a smile on your face and I am sure that you will be greeted with a smile and a hi, hello, how are you, nice meeting you and .................. |
| The ideal of a nightclub that is 100% open to everyone, and still draws only the hot couples, is unrealistic. You simply can't have it both ways. You have to understand the psychology of managing people with different egos, incomes, and expectations. The thing I like about the DP parties, is you almost never wait in line. They don't do the whole vegas crap with their events. They are open to everyone. But once you get in the club its up to you to mix and mingle. Since the DP events draw both lifestylers and vanilla couples, most are very cautious about how they approach you. The safest way to is just let people come in and let them have a night without any harrassment. The expectations can be distorted just by saying hi. You are worried about scarring off the new couple, or making them think you want to take things further. When the truth is you just wanted to make them feel welcomed. There are a lot of stereotypes that new couples ( especially vanilla ) have to overcome before they will truely understand what the DP parties are about. Remember the DP parties are a no Pressure environment. So if you sit in the corner and people watch all night, then get upset because noone went out of their way to get to know you its your own fault. If you want people to think you are a more socialable person, get out on the dance floor, bring a camera take some pictures. Submit them to the Mr DP. And if they are good pictures( subject matter, composition, lighting ), he will most likely post them on the website. However if you want the type of parties where its a meat market. And you are sexually harrased ( not complimented ) the second you walk in the door, then the DP parties are not for you. |
Thanks all for the comments. |
| great blog. |
Ok, so this blog is going to make some people a little uncomfortable, but sometimes we all have to put our big girl panties on and deal with it. LOL. The Spectaculars have this policy: Say hi to everybody. It's pretty simple. We do so for many reasons: (1) who are we NOT to say hi to anybody? We're nobody special. (2) What's wrong with saying hi? We like it when new and old friends say hi to us. It makes us feel welcome and loved, so why not share the feeling. Awwwwww. And (3) sometimes hi introduces you to the nicest people that normally you wouldn't get to know. Amazing how a timeless ritual also works in the LS. What amazes me is sometimes we say hi and people look at us crazy like we said “fuck us on the dance floor, right now” or something? Some people don't know what to say back…let us help. You extend your arm out and at the same time spread your lips (Focus! Focus People!) in the shape of a smile. Showing teeth is optional. From there, open your hand into an accepting position, extend it and say “hi” back. Te he he. Sarcasm should really have its own font. Here is the zinger: Just because we say hi does NOT mean we want to fuck. I think there is this misconception that if one introduces themselves or speaks for more then a 2 minute period, that there is a preconceived notion of sex? Uhhhh NO. We actually like to get to know people before we pounce them because your mental situation is FAR more attractive and lasts longer then your initial physical appearance. While the physical aspects always lure people in at the beginning it's the ability to have a conversation, connection and some chemistry that make it (for lack of a better term) spectacular. LOL. Having said that, we do want to define a couple saying hi versus just one person in the partnership. For some reason a “couple hi” is much more welcoming and accepted. In part we interpret them both being on the same page and having a clear objective as a couple. Couple confidence is hot…couple confusion…not so much. So what the hell is our point? We wanted to stress that it IS ok for you to say hi…to us or anybody for that matter. We'll never assume that hi ever means much more then hi. Unless you're hot…in which case ignore this entire blog. LOL. Just KIDDING! Hello…our name is SpectacularCpl |
