Blogs Dinner With No Expectations

Thanks for the feedback and comments. I HAVE to say, for the record, that I did include all of my commas and apostrophes within my original post. I have no idea where they have gone but the punctuation loss is driving me nuts! At least there is consistency on the inconsistency, but jeesh.  My apologies.

Sorry to hear about the over aggressiveness SurfNSwing; we can relate from both ends: way too push couples and sometimes we even find ourselves having a little too much fun after too many drinks. But the good news is we dont take it personal when someone asks us to back off. Sometimes you need the reminderBUT having said that, I plan to post a blog on aggressiveness because I do think some is necessary, particularly with the women. Totally deflecting but thank you for the feedback.

Poller, yall are too funny but dinner next time you are in Houston sounds like a plan. THAT may be sooner then we realize. Te he he.

xoxoxo

A note:

Dear Attractive Couple,

We liked your profile and think your pictures are hot. If interested, let's grab a bite or a drink to see if we have anything in common? If not, nothing personal and we hope you'll still say hi if you see us out.

Best,
SpectacularCpl


A general request for dinner. It looks simple from my angle. It sounds innocent enough but for some reason, there are hidden messages here that my Spectacular brain is not grasping.

Im sure weve all sent out the above sort of note or received one at some point. To us, dinner is just dinner. An opportunity to get to know a couple and talk without having to yell over music. To be honest, we wanna see if they look like their profile pics, too. Weve come to find that not everybody photographs well and not everybody wants to go and spend money to have a photographer to take great pics of them.  So sometimes you do see pics that are not super cute, but once you meet that person out or for dinner, you are pleasantly surprise that they are hot and intelligent. Now, Id like to say that in the event you DO go to dinner and they have a third eye, please dont e-mail me mad because Spectacular said. Im not telling you to go. Im just saying, sometimes people dont always look like their profile pics. Good or bad. Smile.

Back to the e-mail for dinner:

Its just dinner but for some reason there is a challenge to commit to it? Ive noticed that Im a little more responsive to the e-mail saying "Hey, well be out at the club and would love to meet you guys is easier to digest. Is it because the club is neutral ground and dinner is more direct in your face? Or do couples want to have a back up plan in the event dinner is scary? LMAO. Why? If I dont like how dinner is going, I text Mr. S with a distress signal (Big Egos word thanks girl) and we leavequickly. Keep the change.

If dinner is just dinner, why is it hard to commit too and do people really have expectations after? Aside from going to dinner with your current, well known friends and group, are people open to dinner with new couples as a first time meet and greet or is that too invasive?  

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