In my opinion, theres nothing hotter then a confident woman who knows what she wants and goes after it. Women in general ooze sex. Everything about them screams desire from the curves they accentuate to the stride in their cat like walk. High heels, pencil skirts, mini-skirts, skinny jeans, and exposed shouldersOh my! Women are passion and yearning all in one complex package. Even if they dont try or know ita woman doing her hairnaked (LOL), cookingnaked or just a woman being a woman, is HOT. Women are fierce, fleshy, creatures that demand attention and delight those who show notice to them. Those women, who know what they want, often are aggressive enough to go after it. Oh but wait. Lets clarify. The aggressive woman is not one who is pushy or lacks class. But she is confident and drops subtle enough hints to avoid any confusion or grey area. Lack of confusion is like lack of panties under your work suit. Also very HOT. LOL.
Now, naturally when I speak of women, I am referring to my limited experiences and I do understand the above is not relevant to ALL women. Duh. We all have our moments of weakness. Some women are conservative, shy and conventional. Pause. Notice how the words used to describe them are just not as sexy as the above? Im sorry ladies, but there is the reality. While conservative and shy is niceits just not sexy or often approachable. There is way too much room for confusion within conservative.
I hate to say this, but thats almost the feeling I get when I run into a woman whos just not 100% sure about what she wants, especially when it comes to the LS. The extreme is the women whose husband is pushing her. Two words: Turn Off. Were not talking about her because I tend to avoid her in LS situations. Sorry but true.
Were also not talking about women who are not bi or just not into the Girls Gone Wild Thing. Contrary to popular belief, you know what you wantthat would be another male and thats fine, too. Nothing wrong with pouncing my man and letting him know you like himheck, thats why were out and guess what, sometimes guys DO actually want you to want them. sigh
But we are talking about lack of clarity.
So whats this all have to do with erections. Simple, aggressive women are somewhat essential for the LS. While take charge women are not a requirement they are attractive and weather we like it not, attraction (physical or mental, take your pick) is a prerequisite.
I could be wrong. I could be missing the boat on the passive, submissive woman who just wants someone to take charge of her body. Now thats a whole separate blog, because even that freak really knows what she wants. ;)
Thoughts?
Aggressively So
SpectacularCpl | (my apologies in advance for un-transferred punctuation, cringe)